A Journey of Self-Reflection and Growth
As I landed in LaGuardia last month, surrounded by holiday travelers, I felt a wave of emotions wash over me. Tears streamed down my face as I reflected on the incredible journey I've been on. I couldn't help but think about how far I've come since last winter. It was then that I spoke at the very first Data With Serena dinner sponsored by Sigma Computing, an event that marked the beginning of my journey as a thought leader-entrepreneur. NYC has felt like home since I launched my business and will always hold a very special place in my heart.
Fast forward to December 2024, and I was on my way to another speaking engagement hosted by Sigma, this time to talk about the role of Data & AI in employee wellbeing and inclusion from my forthcoming book. It's a full circle moment, a moment of recognition that I've come a long way since last winter.
As I reflected on my journey, I felt a wave of gratitude wash over me. I'm grateful for the opportunities that have come my way, for the support of my community, and for the chance to pursue my passion. I'm grateful for the lessons I've learned, for the experiences I've had, and for the memories I've made.
I was feeling a sense of relief. Relief that I took the courageous step creating a business that is successful beyond year one, while many small businesses don't survive. Relief that I've been able to share my message with others and make a positive impact on their lives.
I also felt bitter sweet. I had spent years stuck in my head, questioning my abilities and second-guessing myself. I wondered if I should have done this sooner and bet on myself? I wondered if I was the loudest critic of myself.
Over the past few months I've finally started to truly trust myself and as a result take big risks in my business. I ended partnerships and relationships that no longer worked. I started new ones. Not everything has worked out, of course. However, every experience has led me to where I am today. I've grown, learned, and become a stronger person because of the challenges I've faced.
As you get back into "normal" for 2025 tomorrow, here are 5 questions to ask yourself and answer honestly:
If your future self met you today, would they thank you or resent you?
What’s the most important thing that you’ve been procrastinating for too long?
What’s one decision you’ve been avoiding bc it feels uncomfortable?
Are the people closest to you lifting you up or holding you back?
What dream have you given up that you know, deep down, you still very much want?
I encourage you to reflect on your own journey and allow yourself to be 100% honest. Don't be afraid to confront your fears, doubts, and uncertainties. Trust yourself, and bet on yourself. Do it scared and do it anyway! You never know what's possible until you take the first step outside your comfort zone.
Let me know which question got you thinking! I read all your replies.
Happy 2025,
Serena
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